My wife and I don't usually travel together any more. We used to travel as a family, a lot. He is now 34, and looses more control all the time. In constant pain and heavily medicated. He goes to the bee club with me if he isn't in school. occasionally he will go out back when I am working in the hives or building them. He is working on his last 2 classes to get his first degree in web design. The drugs make it very hard for him to think. If we could take the drugs away he is very smart. He work for AOL for 10 years. No matter how much pain he was in he always made it to work. They hired him, the first day he applied (normally takes weeks to find out) while he was a junior in high school, had to wait until summer to be able to go through their 2 week training course. Got laid off 10 years later because they moved the call center over seas. They took care of him at the end.