I want to get the majority of the bees out and then i can figure out the rest from there - i'm hoping (maybe wishful thinking) that the Queen has moved in to the box that i put on top
Don't get your hopes too high, I assure you will be disappointed in both your desires. Get your plan B ready now, you will need it.
Hahhah thanks Robo! so what's my plan B

Seriously though i know the only way i'm going to get them out is to cut the side of the tree open