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« on: September 19, 2009, 07:49:39 PM »
well, i don't know how to say this but i need some advice on geting a girl friend. i am twelve. any advice? ( it would be great if some girls posted on here so i can get a girls perspective) THANKS!!   :-D
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Re: dating
« Reply #1 on: September 19, 2009, 08:11:30 PM »
my advice is to have many friends who are girls, but not one girlfriend...at your age.  :-)

if you really want to learn about girls and how to interact with them, first learn to have them as friends.

this is an old girls perspective!!
.....The greatest changes occur in their country without their cooperation. They are not even aware of precisely what has taken place. They suspect it; they have heard of the event by chance. More than that, they are unconcerned with the fortunes of their village, the safety of their streets, the fate of their church and its vestry. They think that such things have nothing to do with them, that they belong to a powerful stranger called “the government.” They enjoy these goods as tenants, without a sense of ownership, and never give a thought to how they might be improved.....

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« Reply #2 on: September 19, 2009, 08:49:48 PM »
Good luck bee boy; kathy gave some good advice.

He is something else to think about:

Be especially nice to those homely girls. They just have not peaked yet.

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« Reply #3 on: September 19, 2009, 10:17:02 PM »
The best way is to ignore them at first.

If you chase them, they run.  If you don't, they come closer to find out why.    :?   :roll:
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« Reply #4 on: September 20, 2009, 12:31:31 AM »
The best way is to ignore them at first.

If you chase them, they run.  If you don't, they come closer to find out why.    :?   :roll:



Kinda like deer hunting.... hunt hard all morning and not see anything,,, sit under a tree and fall asleep and wake up to a doe smelling your boots!
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« Reply #5 on: September 20, 2009, 11:21:18 AM »
Kinda like deer hunting.... hunt hard all morning and not see anything,,, sit under a tree and fall asleep and wake up to a doe smelling your boots!

That very thing has happened to me!! :pinkelephant:

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Re: dating
« Reply #6 on: September 20, 2009, 12:57:15 PM »
My advise is to not get a girl friend now, and when you get a little older just date them and when they start talking about "WALKING THE GREEN MILE" (marriage),  run as fast and as far as you can and don't look back  :evil:
THAT's ME TO THE LEFT JUST 5 YEARS FROM NOW!!!!!!!!

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Re: dating
« Reply #7 on: September 20, 2009, 02:20:31 PM »
My advise is to not get a girl friend now, and when you get a little older just date them and when they start talking about "WALKING THE GREEN MILE" (marriage),  run as fast and as far as you can and don't look back  :evil:
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« Reply #8 on: September 20, 2009, 04:26:36 PM »
You guys are all talk, you'd be lost without us.  :-D

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« Reply #9 on: September 20, 2009, 08:09:47 PM »
Hey TWT did you get caught without your running shoes on. LOL.
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« Reply #10 on: September 20, 2009, 09:40:18 PM »
"Run Forrest, RUN."  :-D

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« Reply #11 on: September 21, 2009, 03:30:21 AM »
Girls are ugly, and they smell funny...  :evil:

You should not be worrying about this for at least four more years.

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« Reply #12 on: September 21, 2009, 01:53:18 PM »
Stay away from my 12-yo daughter who'd like nothing better than a boyfriend.  Any boy that comes too near is going to have to face a whole swarm of killer bees.   :-P
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« Reply #13 on: September 21, 2009, 02:00:39 PM »
thanks every body! :-D i will try to see what works best. (and for every one that said not to get one right now,i am still going to get a girl friend, sorry) this should prove to be very interesting. :roll:
 WISH ME LUCK!! :-D    ( :-* I hope. :lau: lol!) THANKS!! :)
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« Reply #14 on: September 21, 2009, 03:47:09 PM »
Ok, I'll add in here. :)  This probally applies a little more when you can drive said girlfriend to dates, and bring her home to meet momma.  But Always treat your mother with respect.   Girls are taught that the way a boy treats his mom is the way he will treat his wife. 

I remember when it seemed important to have a boyfriend at age 12.  so I can imagine the emotions ring true for a boy to have a girlfriend. 

Find someone who shares similar intrests then you will have something to talk about.   

Know mom and dad's phone rules.  They may not be what you would expect.  and know ahead of time if using cell phone minutes, etc. is acceptable.   The punishment for messing up is not worth it.  Phone bills are expensive if misused. 

Other than that try to know some current events, pop culture, the latest movies.  Make yourself informed and knowledgable.   But listen to her opinions. 



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« Reply #15 on: September 21, 2009, 04:19:21 PM »
make sure you get to know her parents.  not only will they feel more comfortable with you, but you'll get to see what she's probably going to be like when she gets older.  how mom acts and how mom treats dad, is what you get.
.....The greatest changes occur in their country without their cooperation. They are not even aware of precisely what has taken place. They suspect it; they have heard of the event by chance. More than that, they are unconcerned with the fortunes of their village, the safety of their streets, the fate of their church and its vestry. They think that such things have nothing to do with them, that they belong to a powerful stranger called “the government.” They enjoy these goods as tenants, without a sense of ownership, and never give a thought to how they might be improved.....

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« Reply #16 on: September 21, 2009, 05:34:33 PM »
New shoes, a haircut and a PAYCHECK always works for me.

Confidence is key.  There is no substitute for confidence.  The shy weird guy in the corner gets the last pick at the dance.  Your "the man" and they are fortunate to be your girlfriend because you are a cool guy that treats them with respect but is not a wimp they can run all over.   

Go for the cute girl that likes to fish and will bait her own hook.  ALWAYS, ALWAYS only go out with girls that like you and not girls that you like.  Your confident remember.  If they don't like you and have to be convinced they are obviously a bad judge of character.  It's not a contest your looking for but a companion.  The measure of a good girlfriend is how well they treat YOU not how pretty or popular they are.

One other tip.  When looking for ways to attract women.  Don't listen to advice from women.  They never know what they want and when they do they change their mind in a moment.

   

 

   
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Re: dating
« Reply #17 on: September 21, 2009, 06:05:08 PM »


One other tip.  When looking for ways to attract women.  Don't listen to advice from women.  They never know what they want and when they do they change their mind in a moment.

   

 

   

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« Reply #18 on: September 21, 2009, 06:07:13 PM »
No comment. :)   I never know what I want, but at least I'm upfront about it.  lol
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« Reply #19 on: September 21, 2009, 06:38:23 PM »
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Confidence is key.  There is no substitute for confidence. 

Mason is on the money here....I didn't figure this out until I was almost finished with college.  And bee boy, notice that he didn't say cocky, he said confident.

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