I'm really sorry Eri But I cant help but grin :-D
You DEFINITELY have "BEE FEVER" like the rest of us now!
And, I believe your question is a serious one...
I just cant help myself though..... :)
I think its a drone......
And, as you have probably already read, drones only purpose is to mate with queens.
I think that, what you have here, is a drone bee who has fallen in love with you :-*
Maybe you have a scent on you that makes him think you're a QUEEN!
You have a little "Bee Boyfriend" who has a gigantic crush on you!
But,... :shock:..Your going to "INSPECT ITS GENDER"???(...Uh oh,....I cant stop laffing and my wife is coming to see whats going on)..This little bee will be so embarrassed!
Maybe you can get a set of binoculars or a zoom lens and just compare his eyes with another regular bee..A drones eyes are bigger.
At any rate, enjoy his company while you can...He wont live that much longer and if he does find a "Bee Girlfriend" he wont be back to see you anymore. He will die after mating with a queen.
I think if you explain all this to your friends they will not feel so bothered any more by the bee.
hey JP, can you make the picture come here?
Good luck eri!