Here I am, here I am, and how do you do.
I seem to be the fool who always gets lots of egg on my face. This issue of not seeing the "show unread posts", etc. that you have all been listenting to me complaining about, is as usual, me, my own fault, not Mozilla, but me!!!! I can accept blame and deal pretty OK with this stuff

Rob told me to click the + beside the date in the top left hand corner. I did that, but I still had the issue of not seeing these headers. So, I used my alternate account Cindi2 (alternate ego, rah, rah, rah). It was working just fine. Got to thinking about things and thought that it was probably just something that I did on my laptop, somewhere, someplace, that I needed to undo to make things right.
Rob, so yes, I tried it again, I clicked on the + beside the date and it expanded the header, oh brother, so simple and yet so far away. Logical, right, that is why I thought I had best experiment and get thing straightened out. I must learn to go deep into stuff, take a chance and learn all I can, I am always so worried that my computer will mess up on me if I do different things. Sounds hoaky, but I have a hoaky way!!!
In case you ever see this again, Cindi2 is Cindi (me), ha, gotta laugh at myself!!!!

Have a wonderful day, best of our great life. Cindi