Your wife sounds just like many of us wives.

We'll ask if we can have something, the answer is always NO from the husband, but if our heart is set on it we do it anyway. LOL
I did that once over a new dog. I wanted a purebreed, some sort of good family dog. The husband said no. Well I spent the next year trying to convince him, and picked out the breed I wanted - a golden retriever. One day I came home with bowls, toys, and the rest. He asked - what's all this? I said, for the puppy I want. (Not very nice of me I guess.) Six months later I found the puppy I wanted, and bought it. Well - that was over 10 years ago...... I still have the dog, but the husband is gone. I'm happy with how it worked out. LOL I still do some of that now, but we're at 4 cats, 3 dogs, 5 squirrels, and then some ducks....... and I know better than to bring even one more home.

(Or so my huband hopes.)
I'm glad she managed to convince you. Bees really are alot of fun.... and fasinating, and relaxing. I'd take bees over a goat or llama any day.
Beth